Is he trying to brush me off ?
Question:I have been flirting with this guy and he mentioned that he wanted to attend a basketball game coming up, so I bought him the tickets. I surprised him with 2 of them today and they were very exspensive. I bought him the best seats in the house. Center court above the players bench.
He seemed happy, then turned to his friend at work and asked him to go with him to the game that I got him tickets.
WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT?
I was going to tell him to take his friend anyway because I am working out of town, but he never gave me the chance.
He seemed happy but did that seem like he did not want to go with me or this just a guy thing?
Answers:
It's not a "guy" thing, it's an unbelievably selfish, immature and petty thing. I get pissed off just reading your question.
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maybe he didn't understand you also liked basketball - maybe he thought you weren't into it. im sure he appreciated the awesome giftIs San Antonio Full of Dirty Players?
He should have asked if you wanted to go with him.Why did you hand him both tickets? You should have handed him one and said, what time are you picking me up.
Maybe he simply wasn't thinking.
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What a jerk.What kind of basketball shoes and socks should i get?
Not sure if he is brushing you off but he is rude.. a way to a mans heart is not your wallet and flirting should always be suttle... make him come to you not the other way around. you can turn this around in your favor but buying those tickets were way off course...GOOD LUCKYour down by one with three seconds on the clock. Who do you give the ball to?
dunno...thers proly somtin with dat guy...most considerate ppl wudnt do dat i wudnt.Who was the first player to ever win a 3 point shooting contest?
Take someone else to the game. That guy sounds like a moron.Am I the only one who think T-Mac makes horrible shots selection?
I know friends that are stupid enough not to realize what was going on there, but more than likely he just doesn't want to date you.*, if all else fails just bluntly ask him.
79-76, game one. 79-76, game two as well? talk about one of them coincidences.?
thats really messed up.i would take my tickets back.
selfish bastard.
who knows whats going on in his head..it cant be good whatever it is.
from what you told me, he seems like a guy that tries to take as much as he can from a girl...and thats not good.
still..i would confront him, ask him why he didnt ask you?
the gesture would have been nice atleast.
backing him in a corner may be awkward for him and maybe you but, guys like that kind of thing for one, and then he knows your not the kind of girl that can be taken advantage of.
some guys are just airheads.
did you ever tell him that you would be out of town before you bought them? maybe he knew...
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Um, you should have surprised him with ONE ticket and kept the other for yourself.Does he think you're just "buddies"? Has he shown any interest in your flirting?
Truth is, your guy is a) uninterested in you romantically, b) totally oblivious to your interest in him, or c) is playing the macho detached card on you, so you don't know he's interested in you. I'd best guess a or b.
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it could b that he was so happy to get the tickets that he was just being another oblivious guyWho will be playing in the NBA finals? And, who will win? And why?
Yeh a gay guy problem, drop him and get a real man.How are the NBA conference semifinals scheduled?
Anyone that is that insensitive, doesn't deserve your time. Chalk it up to experience, and make it clear next time that you're asking a guy to go with you to the event. "hey, I have tickets to the game. Would you like to come with me?" If he says no, grab a girlfriend and go. who knows who'll you'll meet.He obviously doesn't like you and doesn't want to go out with you. If I were you, I would take them back and give them to someone more deserving.
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