What would you do?
Question:Okay, so here's the deal. I play on a high level club volleyball team. One of our tournaments was scheduled for the weekend of prom, so I immediatly told my team and coach that I would be unable to attend. Well, things have changed since then... today at practice my coach came up to me and told me that we had been accepted to try and qualify for nationals at this tournament. This is a big deal because our team stands a very legitimate shot at qualifying. She told me that she would pay for my hotel room, for all my food while i was there, the money for gas, and even pay me for the dress I bought to go to prom...all just if i would come and play. Yet, as easy as this makes it seem, I have to think about my date to prom. He's my bf of a month and a half and I would feel terrible to do that to him. I know he would let me go, yet he would never let on how bad it hurts him
So, i want your opinion, what should I do:
A. Stay with the team and qualify?
B. Go to prom?
Please explain why..
Answers:
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If you BF is cool, he will want you to play the games.If he only cares about himself and the prom, he will be gone soon after the prom anyway.
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A. You are still young and have to worry about yourself right now heck maybe you could even play college ball.I would go to the volleyball. If he is really and truly your bf, he will understand, and who knows, maybe thats not his thing and he'll be relieved that you don't want to go. You have a great deal on your hands. Maybe you could make it up to your bf and do something special. The prom's not all its cracked up to be, and your team needs you more. I hope this helps
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thats a tough one...i would say go to the tournament. It will be hard to break the nes to ur bf, but he will probably understand. Maybe after the tournament u could throw your own "prom" for all the girls on the volleyball team and their dates. Im sure ur bf will understand ur dedication to the sport u love! good luck!Just be cautious if you choose to play- accepting the money for the dress etc could cost you your amatuer status! I'm not going to weigh in on the moral issue tho
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I'd talk to him about it, in the end you will have to decide which is more important to you. If it were me, I'd go play volleyball. Prom is overated and most people just stay long enough to have their pics taken. Just promise him you'll make it up to him somehow. And I'm not talking about sex either!! ;-) good luckWhat does it mean to back pass or back pass behind you?
That really is tough. talk to your bf and see what he thinks about it. Is this your junior or senior prom? if it is your junior prom, you always have next year (which is a big deal). If your senior, really...its up to you.From where i get information on volley ball?
I would talk to him about it... maybe if he hears that you are being asked to go to this tournament he might want to come along and cheer you on... most guys like sports... i know i would understand... im not much of a dancer anyways... maybe he is going to the prom with you because he knows its a big thing for girls and if you don't want to go then maybe he ll be happy to skip it?All guys are different.. just ask him and see what he wants
I would play volleyball. This is a big thing, you can go far!
BUT, Talk to your date, he can either go without you or mabe he will go to your game. Really it is up to you and your date. You dont want to blow his night so talk to him and find out how he would truley feel!
GO TO VOLLEYBALL!!
on my team some girl went out of town instead of our qualifier and girls on the team got mad. But that's not the point so, go to the qualifier, your team needs you more than ever there. Plus if you want to play in college, coaches will be there to look at players and who knows they may like what they see and talk to you...Well either way good luck.
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I'd go to volleyball. For one thing, your team needs you, so why not be a team player and do your share... im sure they are missing prom as well... And, just know that guys don't care about prom like girls do. Take it from a guy, I wouldn't have cared either way of missing it or going to it. Prom is really all about the girls, so I don't think he'll care.Are there any volleyball camps in North Carolina?
It is very obivious you love you bf very much, otherwise this would have been a no-brainer. You should talk to your bf, I am sure he will be fine you playing Volleyball. I am sure you can make it up to him with another special occassion.Good luck.
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follow your heart.but i would say go to volleyball bc if ur team doesnt make it then they would be mad at u and there will always be more dancesMore Questions & Answers...